Actor Tommy Ford attended the Real Talk Teen Forum and spoke with the Recorder about his thoughts on teens in the community.
Why was it important for you to be a part of Teen Talk?
Tommy Ford: I believe that children are our future. I think itās very important that we empower young people and at an early age they learn just how beautiful and how powerful and how amazing they are. At an early age they learn how they have the capacity to change. So often theyāre victims in their lives and say āI have to do what mama did. I have to do what daddy did.ā But they actually have the power to make changes in their lives and control their destiny. So thatās why it was so important for me to be there.
What impact do you think teens have on the community?
Well I think they have a tremendous impact. You donāt believe me, take a look at the crime in a community and how many young people are involved. That affects the community. You look at the school system; itās financed based on how many young people show up. So you see a school thatās getting poor funding itās because they have poor participation. So our young people affect our lives tremendously because those young people will one day be older people. You show me a lazy child Iāll show you a lazy adult. You show me a young person who has low self-esteem or doesnāt feel good about him or herself and Iāll show you a man or woman who has grown up to have those same attributes. The prison system is based on the reading scores of a third grader. Thatās why we take all these tests starting in third grade because they figure if you canāt read by the time youāre in third grade, youāre going to turn to a life of crime and theyāre going to have a room waiting for you by the time youāre a teenager.
What is one message you want to send to teenagers?
One message I want to send to teenagers is to remember that youāve got a job and our job is to do what we were born to do. We were born to be great we were born to be awesome we are born to be winners. The true definition of a loser is a winner that quit.