It’s hard enough navigating the modern workplace without having to deal with friendly fire from within your own ranks. But any time a group of people with varying personalities and priorities is gathered, there’s inherent risk of conflict.
The following tips from BlackEnterprise.com can help you protect yourself from teammates who might not have your best interest at heart.
1. Don’t be too quick to open up:
Getting along with co-workers can make your work life much easier and naturally, you may be inclined to invite them into your circle upon first introduction. Be careful about how much you open up to them, and never fall into the trap of feeling like you have to overexpose yourself to get them to like you. Revealing too much information can be spun into the ammunition they need to block you from that next promotion or recommendation.
2. Document everything:
The best way to cover for yourself and build your argument is to put everything in writing. Avoid the “he says, she says” conversations and save all emails, texts, paper documents, etc. that you’ve exchanged with your co-worker to ensure they have no room to throw you under the bus to another colleague or supervisor.
3. Do not get even:
Although it’s easier said than done, getting even with your saboteur will not make the situation better. The last thing you need is for your record of playing tit-for-tat to be presented to HR.
4. Laugh it off:
Once your saboteur sees that you’re not affected by their scheming acts, they will soon realize that their actions are futile.
5. Report to HR:
Reporting a situation to HR is probably the last thing you want to do, because no one wants to come across like a tattletale in the workplace. However, if the situation continues to escalate, reporting your issue to HR will be your safest option. But before doing any of this, do a little bit of self-evaluation to ensure that you aren’t the root of the problem.
